Island Life: Culture and Safety

​During my time in Cyprus, I have been struck by the calm and serene culture that seems to permeate this island. The relaxed atmosphere is a stark contrast to the busy environment I am accustomed to in the United States. 

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The pace of life here seems to be slower, allowing people to enjoy the simple pleasures of daily living. Whether it is taking a stroll on the boardwalk or enjoying a leisurely meal on the coast, quality of life seems to be prioritized over the relentless pursuit of productivity. The relaxed culture of Cyprus is reflected in its daily rhythms. Some shops close early on Wednesday and Saturday, and all-day Sunday. This is not to say this country is unproductive, but the attitude is such that it prioritizes community and well-being. 

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Social connections are valued and nurtured. America is more of an individualistic society. Everyone is busy and keeps to themselves. Striking up a conversation can be awkward and unwelcome. But here, most people are welcoming and friendly. 

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Cyprus feels very safe, and yet I have not noticed hardly any policing. In America, there are police cars patrolling the streets, and security officers in many public spaces. This sense of safety in Cyprus is not due to heavy security presence but rather to collective morals and effective, yet unobtrusive, law enforcement.

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At one point during my time in Cyprus, I visited a hotel where I wasn’t staying, simply to take some pictures of myself as the exterior of the building was well decorated. As I approached the building, I was a bit uneasy. I found myself watching my surroundings for signs of security, anticipating that I might be confronted and told to leave. Every person that walked by or looked at me made me worry that I might have to quickly pack up and find somewhere else to take photos. 

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Eventually, security did approach, but the encounter played out differently than I had imagined. Instead of questioning me or asking me to leave, the security guard pointed to a tree behind me, where he noticed a malfunctioning light. In a helpful manner, he offered to readjust the light, making sure it was properly aligned, before offering a warm smile and walking away. I thanked him for his kindness.  

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In the U.S., I am often conditioned to view such spaces through a lens of strict property boundaries and rules. In America "intruding" or "breaking rules" is a frequent concern because everything is closely guarded or owned. However, in Cyprus, this security guard’s actions highlighted a different cultural approach. Rather than treating me as a potential threat, he saw me as part of the community, casually engaging with the space without an air of suspicion. My American conditioning had primed me to be overly cautious, whereas in Cyprus, the accommodating attitude of the people fostered a more welcoming and less anxious environment.  

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The relaxed lifestyle and strong sense of safety in Cyprus offer a refreshing perspective on how communities can thrive without heavy-handed policing. As I reflect on my time here, I am inspired by the way people live in harmony with each other and with their beautiful surroundings. I will miss the stress-free culture and strong sense of community in Cyprus amidst the demanding, high-pressure atmosphere in America.